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Hello Reader, Perhaps you’ve been in this moment where someone says something, and before you've thought anything through, you're already responding. What you don't see, in that compressed slice of time between the words and your reply, is the most important decision being made on your behalf, by your own brain, beneath the surface of conscious thought. Instinctively you're deciding what the words meant. Whether the person is for you or against you. Whether what's required is defence,...
Hello Reader, Bring to mind a disagreement you've been trying to resolve for a while. Not a one-off argument. The kind that keeps coming back whether with a colleague, a family member, a friend, a partner. The kind where you've laid out your reasoning more than once, and they've laid out theirs, and somehow neither of you has moved. Got one in mind? Sometimes, when a disagreement won't resolve, it isn't because someone is being stubborn. It's because both people have been trying to persuade...
Hello Reader, Think of one person you've been quietly frustrated with this week. Not a person you're in open conflict with. The other kind: the colleague whose tone in that email rubbed you the wrong way, the family member you've been short with, the friend whose silence you've been reading something into. The low-grade frustration you've been carrying around without naming. Got someone in mind? Here's an exercise, and it takes five minutes and a piece of paper. Step 1. On the left side of...